"What to actually expect after the age of 18 (5 things they don’t tell you)"

We all hurried to grow up only to realize that once you leave your parents' house, that’s it, you’re officially on a journey of being independent. 

( we often mistake the idea of being mature and grown mixed up.)

This debate is always the best because everyone has different opinions and perceptions. (all are valid)

Here are 5 things that will actually help you transition from not having anything to working towards stability and independence. 

1. We all need some sort of healing. 

Whether that is your inner child, clearing away the garbage, the wounds, the trauma, the unresolved issues of the heart. 

This is crucial to how you respond, act and treat others. 

2. Your insurance under your parents' policy ends at the age of 26. 

I bet this one caught you off guard. I was just as surprised, but yeah, make sure you get insurance through your employer or through an insurance company. Normally you just call to provide your info and they give you a quote. 

3. Full coverage on your vehicle is crucial. Don’t settle on liability.

If you get in a wreck, hit someone and don’t have full coverage, don’t expect to get your car fixed and best believe they will come after your $$$. So, when opening an account with your provider of choice, make sure you ask for full coverage. It may cost more than liability, but you will also be covered 

4. Work on building your credit. 

Credit is a big thing in the US. It helps you get lower interest rates, lower prices on cars, homes and even loans. The higher you have it, the more banks will want to work with you.

5. Relationships matter to the life you want to build. 

If you’re someone that is literally all about themselves and no one else with that “main character energy”, good luck in building genuine friendships. The time and effort you put into your family, relationships and friendships will allow you to truly enjoy the moment and not just be another hang out. 

Enjoy these nuggets and don’t be in a hurry to have it all figured out. It takes time, patience and good stewardship.